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What grief feels like 5 years later

Dear Bella, As I watched the fog blanket our tiny town this morning, you were on my mind as I cautiously drove away from home. Your sisterView full post »

Want to make me the happiest birthday girl ever?

Tomorrow I turn 32 years old. I have a lot to celebrate this year. But even so, it’s been one scary, exhilarating, emotional year and I’llView full post »

Three Years

Dear Bella, These days your presence is like a soft whisper that blows over me in the cool autumn breeze. The signs of fall are upon us andView full post »

Still Standing | Online Misscarriage, Stillbirth, Child Loss, Infertility Support

How many children do you have? It’s the question I cringe at every time those words leave an unknowing stranger’s mouth. ThereView full post »

always with us

Last week we found Bella in the most unlikely of places. The gift tags at Nordstrom. I’m used to finding her in the darkness of ourView full post »